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Marriage Has No Expiry Date, Catholic Bishop in South Africa Counsels against Divorce

Bishop Noel Rucastle, Liaison Bishop for Marriage and Family Life at the Southern African Catholic Bishops Conference (SACBC). Credit: SACBC

Marriage is a lifelong commitment and has no “expiry date”, the Liaison Bishop for Marriage and Family Life at the Southern African Catholic Bishops Conference (SACBC) has said.

In his reflection on the Sacrament of marriage ahead of Marriage Sunday on October 6, Bishop Noel Rucastle emphasized the nature of marriage as a lifelong commitment that he said requires much deliberation before deciding to embrace it.

“Marriage must always be a choice based on sound reasoning and deliberation. Yes, marriage is a lifelong commitment, a commitment for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health. An “expiry date” should never be part of that plan,” Bishop Rucastle said.

The October 6 marriage Sunday that the SACBC Department for Formation, Life, and Apostolate of the Laity has organized seeks to encourage married couples and those considering marriage to reflect on the meaning and commitment of the sacrament.

In his reflection, Bishop Rucastle said that the permanence of marriage should not be subject to conditions or time limits. He urged couples to understand marriage as a conscious choice, where the decision to love should not be left to chance.

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The South African Bishop spoke about the freedom individuals have in following God’s plan. He used the metaphor of a sheep following their shepherd, explaining that straying from the path leads to danger.

The Bishop said that marriage brings fulfillment when entered into with the right intentions. “The decision to marry is life-changing,” he said, adding that when properly prioritized, "marriage bears much fruit."

Bishop Rucastle urged married couples to recommit to their vows and continue nurturing their relationship as part of what he described as a "beautiful dream."

Urging those considering marriage not to be afraid but to trust in God, the Bishop wished that all may know the blessings of a well-conceived plan, advising couples to approach marriage with faith and preparation.

In a separate reflection, the Coordinating Secretary of the Department for Formation, Life, and Apostolate of the Laity at SACBC noted that marriage, as a Sacrament, holds a unique place in God’s plan for humanity.

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“Marriage mirrors, in a special way, the relationship between God and His people. This is what the prophets of the Old Testament defended and reminded the people of, especially the prophet Hosea,” Fr. Nhlanhla Mchunu said in his Wednesday, October 2 reflection.

Fr. Mchunu said that in the New Testament, Jesus restored God’s intention for marriage, teaching that its permanence should reflect God’s enduring love for His people.

He said marriage is not just a contractual arrangement but a sacred covenant rooted in self-giving and mutual love. He further said this covenantal nature of marriage reflects the relationship between Christ and His Church.

Drawing attention to St. Paul’s teachings, where Christ is described as the bridegroom and the Church His bride, Fr. Mchunu said the Sacrament of marriage becomes a model for understanding the other sacraments, as its ultimate purpose is to unite Christ and His Church and lead them to eternal life.

Ahead of Marriage Sunday, he urged married couples to reflect on their own union as a reflection of God’s enduring love for His people. 

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Silas Mwale Isenjia is a Kenyan journalist with a great zeal and interest for Catholic Church related communication. He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Linguistics, Media and Communication from Moi University in Kenya. Silas has vast experience in the Media production industry. He currently works as a Journalist for ACI Africa.