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Like St. Daniel Comboni Let’s Embrace Patience during Hardships in Marriage, Religious Life: Nuncio in Kenya

The Nuncio in Kenya has encouraged those in marriage and in Religious life to have patience in the challenges they face, emulating St. Daniel Comboni who endured hard labour, unbearable climate, sickness, the deaths of several of his young fellow-missionaries while he served in Africa.

In his address on Sunday, October 13, on the occasion of the double celebrations of Family Day and Golden Jubilee of St. Daniel Comboni Parish, Utawala, of the Catholic Archdiocese of Nairobi (ADN), Archbishop Hubertus van Megen said enduring challenges with perseverance and prayer is key to fulfilling one's vocation, whether as a missionary or a married person.

Archbishop van Megen reflected on the hardships that the Italian-born saint endured in total humility in the central African region that saw him found the Comboni Missionaries of the Heart of Jesus (MCCJ).

“To be part of the Comboni family, you need patience. In religious life, especially within the Comboni family, it’s about praying, breathing, and hoping to survive the hardships,” the Archbishop explained, adding that the same approach is necessary in marriage, where he said patience is often tested through frustrations.

Describing marriage and religious life as “a mission of presence, with few visible results,” Archbishop van Megen said, “You need great patience and perseverance, which can only come from trusting in the Sacred Heart of Jesus.”

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The Dutch-born Vatican diplomat compared the trials faced in marriage to the early failures of St. Daniel Comboni, whose mission to regenerate Africa was marked by setbacks, illness, and loss.

“Marriage, too, can often feel like a relationship filled with frustrations. You need to be patient, and sometimes it feels like there’s little progress,” he said on October 13 during the family day and golden Jubilee of the Kenyan Parish named after the Italian Saint born in 1831.

“There are ups and downs. And sometimes you go through long periods in the desert, wondering, ‘was this the right decision? Was it wise?’ But like Daniel, you keep going, keep praying, and never give up,” he said.

Reflecting on the parallels between Comboni’s mission and the life of Christ, the Nuncio recalled how Jesus himself saw only darkness as He approached His crucifixion, praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, “Lord, if it is possible, let this chalice pass from me; yet not my will, but yours be done.”

Archbishop van Megen said that just as Jesus submitted to the Father’s will, missionaries, Priests, Religious, and married people are all called to the same surrender.

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“It is only when we open our hearts, as Jesus did on the cross, even amid pain and distress, that we can truly bear fruit for the Church and one another,” he said.

Drawing inspiration from St. Daniel Comboni, the 63-year-old Nairobi-based Vatican diplomat who started his service as Apostolic Nuncio in Sudan in 2014 encouraged everyone to look to the Sacred Heart of Jesus for strength, especially during times of struggle.

“Let us then learn from Daniel Comboni to look up to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, to look up to the cross, and find in that open heart the source of all consolation,” Archbishop van Megen said.

The Archbishop emphasized the universal nature of vocations, noting that whether in Religious Life, missionary work, marriage, or within our own families, the ultimate goal is to be fruitful for God.

“Through Christ’s example, may we also bear witness to His love, whether in the furthest corners of this world or within our own homes? It’s all about being fruitful for God, for it is in God that we find true wisdom,” he said.

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Silas Mwale Isenjia is a Kenyan journalist with a great zeal and interest for Catholic Church related communication. He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Linguistics, Media and Communication from Moi University in Kenya. Silas has vast experience in the Media production industry. He currently works as a Journalist for ACI Africa.