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Pilgrims at Annual Marian Pilgrimage in Angola Urged to Foster Listening to Shun “cycles of violence”

Pilgrims at Our Lady of Máxima do Toco in the Catholic Archdiocese of Lubango in Angola    have been called upon to foster the attitude of listening.  

Bishop Maurício Agostinho Camuto of Angola’s Catholic Diocese of Caxito, who made the call during the closing Mass of the annual pilgrimage on October 27 said that “cycles of violence” derive from “lack of listening”.

“The lack of listening contributes to the occurrence of conflicts, both within families and in society. When we do not listen to others, we create misunderstandings and disagreements that can escalate into divisions,” Bishop Camuto said in his homily.

He emphasized, “The lack of listening fuels cycles of violence; when we don’t listen, we perpetuate ignorance and division.”

The Angolan Catholic Bishop continued, “The inability to listen creates barriers in interpersonal relationships. Husbands and wives, parents and children, friends and colleagues face difficulties when they are unwilling to listen to one another.”

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He faulted the tendency to ignore other people’s challenges, saying such an attitude creates an atmosphere of selfishness, indifference, and resistance to change.

“A lack of listening can lead to disinterest and apathy towards the needs of others, resulting in a more selfish and indifferent society where people do not care about each other’s suffering. It can also foster resistance to necessary changes,” Bishop Camuto said.

The Angolan member of the Congregation of the Holy Spirit (CSSp./Holy Ghost Fathers/Spiritans) further said, “When we ignore constructive criticism or the advice of others, we can refuse to change and grow, both personally and spiritually. A lack of listening can lead to loneliness. When people do not feel heard, they may withdraw, resulting in emotional and social isolation.”

The Local Ordinary of Caxito said failing to listen has consequences in a person’s relationship with God; the attribute limits one’s ability to hear God.

“If we cannot listen to the cries of those around us, how can we be receptive to God’s word within?” he posed, and continued, “Listening is crucial for spiritual growth, helping us understand God’s inspirations and follow His path.”

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Reflecting on the importance of listening as a foundation for meaningful dialogue and harmony, Bishop Camuto emphasized the need to cultivate the habit of listening.

“In our relationship with God, listening is indispensable. Life is often so noisy that it can drown out God’s voice. Like Bartimaeus, who refused to be silenced, we too must persevere in listening to God, who is always ready to hear us. In silence, we find the clarity we need to follow the path He sets for us,” he said.

Bishop Camuto described listening as not only a skill but also an attitude of empathy and compassion, necessary for building strong relationships.

The Catholic Bishop said that cultivating the virtue of listening is even more crucial during times of conflict.

“In times of discord, when emotions run high, listening is what can guide us to peace, ensuring every cry of pain is heard and understood. In moments of war and crisis, listening becomes a vital tool, helping to bring untold stories of suffering to light,” the Spiritan Bishop said.

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Listening, he further said, “can pave the way for reconciliation. Attentive listening breaks down prejudice and builds bridges between those who are divided.”

João Vissesse is an Angolan Journalist with a passion and rich experience in Catholic Church Communication and Media Apostolate.